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How are You Really?

Writer's picture: Patrizia a.k.a. Trixi SchwartzPatrizia a.k.a. Trixi Schwartz

I know you said you're F.I.N.E. (okay), but truly — how are you when the day concludes and the lights dim? When the world ceases its demands, and there's no one left to persuade that you're managing everything perfectly.

 

How do you feel when you're lying in bed, surrounded by the silence that knows too much? When the solitude that disregards how many people care for you sneaks in regardless. Do you still bear the burden of things you promised to release? The things you no longer discuss.

 

Do your bills acknowledge your dreams? The ones you tucked away in a drawer because the world had no room for them. Or have they also learnt to remain silent — just like you?

 

And your job… does it satisfy you, or merely occupy the hours? Is it your passion or just enough distraction to silence the questions your heart persistently asks — the ones you can't answer?

 

And tell me, has anyone stayed long enough to show that not everyone departs? Or have you learnt to keep your bags ready, just in case?

 

How are you now that you've mastered the art of getting by but forgotten how to genuinely live?


I know you said you're F.I.N.E. (okay). But are you, truly?



F.I.N.E. is the lie we tell the world when we don’t want to be a burden, or we’re too ashamed to admit we don’t have it all together.

 

I know, because I lived that lie for most of my life—until deliverance and transformation set me free.

 

What I really meant was I was Falling apart, Insecure, Numb, and Emotional.

 

That’s not strength — it’s hypocrisy. And it’s one of the deepest roots of depression.

 

We weren’t created to "fake it" to make it. To pretend just to be accepted. That kind of pressure fuels anxiety and wears us down. But God calls us to live in truth, to be real, to walk in integrity. Integrity means to act in ways that align with our words and values, and that includes being truthful to ourselves and honouring our hearts as well as others. Integrity requires us to be the same on the inside as on the outside. That’s why “I’m fine” is no longer in my vocabulary.

 

Be honest instead. Be authentic. People can’t read your mind or support you if they don’t know you need help.

 

So next time you tell me you’re fine… please forgive me when I ask again because I make it a habit to listen to what you’re NOT saying…

 


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